Frequently Asked Questions
How much time do I need to invest in Ride the Wild Horse?
It takes about 21 to 28 consecutive days to create a new habit, but if you do the process correctly and often, you'll experience daily benefits. As you want the process to become second nature to you—so you don't "forget" to apply the skills in times of extreme stress—it may take a little longer.
What should I do if I initially feel something in one part of my body, and a stronger sensation occurs somewhere else?
Always follow the intensity. Focus on the strongest sensation you feel.
What if I don't feel anything or I just feel empty?
That's normal. Pay attention to the feeling of having no feeling, or of being numb or empty.
I’m getting emotional during the meditation, is that normal?
Yes. Releasing repressed feelings can be intense. If you cry, tremble, moan, or make other sounds, remember to breathe deeply and hold your focus. It is okay to experience these emotions—as long as you can calm and focus yourself and feel in control of the process.
If after numerous attempts you still feel uncomfortable, consider seeking the support of a trauma specialist.
Do people really have to learn to experience joy?
Some do. There are those for whom any kind of emotional intensity feels intimidating because they fear a loss of control.
Would writing in a journal be similar to talking to someone?
No! Writing engages different parts of the brain than speaking face to face.